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     Bushu Side Hero Username: Bushu Post Number: 7769 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 50.164.157.158 Rating: N/A |
she is india head of Fanuc. do you think she cares?  I will stir the smooth sands of monotony | ||
| Nanigadu Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 11728 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 99.238.29.61 Rating: N/A |
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| Nanigadu Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 11727 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 99.238.29.61 Rating: N/A |
took us 5 years to convince our parents, all is well now | ||
| Getafix Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 14110 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 151.151.109.20 Rating: N/A |
Kurrod lucky.. She patiently waited for him all these years. Open relation tho nadipinchochu but marriage tho legal status isthe circles lo dirty talks especially on the lady rakunda untadani chesukuntunnademo.. | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 3039 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 183.82.148.5 Rating: N/A |
the declaration of marriage makes people more committed. it is possible to be committed without marriage but with marriage, it is a daily reminder. | ||
| Pplsuck Side Hero Username: Pplsuck Post Number: 6235 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 136.2.1.105 Rating: N/A |
yeah, thats the thing..........isnt it better to be bound by love than tied to commitment ani?..........should it be like a duty ani?.........can we keep the insecurity away ani?........ kids need security......dutiful parents are needed........committed is the best way to run everyday life...... anyways, looks like beaten to death.........to each their own.......no rights and wrongs in these matters I guess....... | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 3038 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 183.82.148.5 Rating: N/A |
they make a choice based on what they think is good for their child. going with someone from the same state or religion or caste decreases reasons for conflict. the so called love in any relationship lasts for max two years, after that it transforms to committed love. in arranged marriage also you can be it love if you choose to be in love. when we are in love, we lose all sense of rationale. | ||
| Pplsuck Side Hero Username: Pplsuck Post Number: 6234 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 136.2.1.105 Rating: N/A |
ofcourse it can be........as a security for kids, u r taking some vows and standing by some expected behavior and all the rest of it.......for any responsible guy and girl, it makes sense to take vows and commit to a course of action........if they are planning kids.........and good if they stand by their vows......sare, negative case will go their own way.....for their own different reasons..........
guarantee ledu....and u cant predict future...so u get in there and took a path based on expectations..... not like to have kids....and not likely to have kids.......and still want to marry are the ones..........I am curious about........may be they have their own reasons......... | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 12668 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68 Rating: N/A |
vantha vz emi kaadhu vunkl... marriage ante families involvement untadhi.. today's nuclear families are staying pretty far away, so it gets easier. but day to day interaction vunappudu.. its takes considerable effort for people to get along.. even when all is similar among them. the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 3037 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 183.82.148.5 Rating: N/A |
institution of marriage did develop for raising of kids but now in 21st century, it is good enough as an announcement to the society of your committed relationship. marriage means you are committed to another individual. Duty is put over feelings. it is a security measure. because in marriages you have ups and downs, you fall in and out of love several times when going thru the journey of life. | ||
| Saint Megastar Username: Saint Post Number: 26704 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 12.22.163.132 Rating: N/A |
enti wishees annai? vallani ela choosukovalo anukune dani meeda wish chesukovachu..maa koduku / kuthru evarini chesukovalo, next 30 years evaritho life lead cheyyalo ela decide chestharu? ( in case arranged marriage ithe ok...love chesinappudu..suitable candidate ante ok cheppochu kada...casette/state match kalaedu ani no seppatam stupidity) | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 12667 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68 Rating: N/A |
 whistle veyyalsinantha ghanakaryam emundhi lendi.. the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Filmbuff Side Hero Username: Filmbuff Post Number: 3425 Registered: 11-2011 Posted From: 85.115.54.180 Rating: N/A |
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| Mental_sachinodu Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 12666 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68 Rating: N/A |
marriage is just a legal promise... it can be broken. and kids anedhi guarantee ledhu kadha ? some folks might not like to have kids. its a valid choice, ofcourse its a strange one the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Saarang Side Hero Username: Saarang Post Number: 3827 Registered: 06-2012 Posted From: 71.197.151.52 Rating: N/A |
Naa experience...different country, different state, same state different caste, same state same caste...annitlo same story...same result. Fathers little bit ok...Mothers find it very hard to accept. | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 3036 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 183.82.148.5 Rating: N/A |
pplsucks post no2 is good. | ||
| Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 48190 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 70.39.231.181 Rating: N/A |
37 ki 35 ki love aa.. | ||
| Pplsuck Side Hero Username: Pplsuck Post Number: 6232 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 136.2.1.105 Rating: N/A |
yeah, you can say sour grapes....... ..... BTW, I ain't against anything traditional or conservative...........unlike our liberal fascists........I don't expect any individual to take a particular course of action......either marriage or open relation........its upto them......and no contempt for either........so please don't get me wrong there.......just weighing the different options anthey...... | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 12665 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68 Rating: N/A |
full istory ante time attesthaadhi.. but it takes time for parents to come out of their comfort zone.. so acceptance ki mundhu denial and rejection stage lo it coasted along for a few years.. once accepted, coping up eppudu, enti, ela inka time attindhi.. between na case lo,different language, different religion .. soo inka koosintha ekva time attindhi anukuntunna.. but patient ga deal seyyalsi vassindhi.. now all happies ... the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 3035 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 183.82.148.5 Rating: N/A |
Guys parents can have wishes. You were not given birth to just be taken care of and do whatever you want. | ||
| Saarang Side Hero Username: Saarang Post Number: 3826 Registered: 06-2012 Posted From: 71.197.151.52 Rating: N/A |
Meeku chaala patience masteru...hope all is well now | ||
| Saint Megastar Username: Saint Post Number: 26697 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 12.22.163.132 Rating: N/A |
nenu arya samaj lo oka pelli (same castte, different states) tpt lo inko pelli (same casette, same village, tata sumos tho jump jilani) llo participate chesina history vundi.. valla parents sapalu tagili naadi love marraige kakunda poyindi... | ||
| Pplsuck Side Hero Username: Pplsuck Post Number: 6231 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 136.2.1.105 Rating: N/A |
thodu ki, emotional attachment ki legal paper enduku ani question ikkada..... | ||
| Thikka_sankara Side Hero Username: Thikka_sankara Post Number: 9176 Registered: 02-2012 Posted From: 122.164.139.56 Rating: N/A |
 rojuko mudi esara bro.... j/kkeka link: fikileaks, | ||
| Saint Megastar Username: Saint Post Number: 26696 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 12.22.163.132 Rating: N/A |
interesting uncle..stor motham vippu.... | ||
| Thikka_sankara Side Hero Username: Thikka_sankara Post Number: 9175 Registered: 02-2012 Posted From: 122.164.139.56 Rating: N/A |
when we cant act, we'd just wonder  keka link: fikileaks, | ||
| Andhrawala Megastar Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 28574 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: N/A |
Pelli anedhi musali vayassu lo okkari kokkaru thodu kosam Not just for making love and kids but also emotional attachement No Signature | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 12663 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68 Rating: N/A |
naa pelli avvataniki kooda 5 years attindhi vunkl... then stages stages lo ayyindhi .... the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Pplsuck Side Hero Username: Pplsuck Post Number: 6230 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 136.2.1.105 Rating: N/A |
ofcourse man.............who am I to stop them?.......without kids aithey ee legalities avoid cheyyochchu kadaa ani...........individuals who can take care of themselves....unlike kids who were brought into this world....and at least responsibility lies with parents.......so the need for marriage....... just curious to understand man.........open relations better emo ani.........I could be totally wrong......but just wondering........ | ||
| Saarang Side Hero Username: Saarang Post Number: 3825 Registered: 06-2012 Posted From: 71.197.151.52 Rating: N/A |
Chaala emtotional torture untadhi...especially when parents start spoling their health | ||
| Methhanithodugu Megastar Username: Methhanithodugu Post Number: 28833 Registered: 12-2008 Posted From: 117.213.225.41 Rating: N/A |
enno techniks vachina IVF UVF UFO ani .. pillal kemi karma inka well settled kabatti norproblem.....Raman and TPG bhai Gandhi mana vaade jara yaad karo.... tamil brahmins ki anduke DMK lantol tagulkunnar ..damil land lo .... Andhra NGO ,Iyyala nen aduguthunna "Meaning of Self respect " ysr mistake | ||
| Saarang Side Hero Username: Saarang Post Number: 3824 Registered: 06-2012 Posted From: 71.197.151.52 Rating: N/A |
Naa closest friends lone muggurni choosanu...they definitely want to get married. Naaku chaala BP vastundhi aa stories chooste | ||
| Thikka_sankara Side Hero Username: Thikka_sankara Post Number: 9173 Registered: 02-2012 Posted From: 122.164.139.56 Rating: N/A |
alsooo, 10 yrs lo there are enough changes to the accepted norms of the society... keka link: fikileaks, | ||
| Thokkalohdi Comedian Username: Thokkalohdi Post Number: 1188 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 24.6.204.178 Rating: N/A |
to love your parents is your karma. To critize them you dont have a right. Hatsoff to that guy. In this age he could be so moral and stuck to his hindu values. Ranbir Kapoor is god of acting | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 12662 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68 Rating: N/A |
naa udhesam adhi kaadhu vunkl.. i feel if it was a do or die situation 10 years back, they would have taken a decision. if it wasnt a matter of such grave situation, where the girl is in no hurry or the boy is in no hurry and families are in no hurry, and everyone is just playing along their egos.. it can just go on and on.. as im sure their professional lives are keeping them pretty busy ani... the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Thikka_sankara Side Hero Username: Thikka_sankara Post Number: 9172 Registered: 02-2012 Posted From: 122.164.139.56 Rating: N/A |
ellehey.... aaa commitment kaavali anukunnodu chesukuntaadu.... akkarledu anukunnodu chesukodu.... daniki anni synonyms antonyms list cheyyalaaa keka link: fikileaks, | ||
| Saarang Side Hero Username: Saarang Post Number: 3823 Registered: 06-2012 Posted From: 71.197.151.52 Rating: N/A |
I know many people with similar stories..chaala torture padataaru. Ee rojullo kooda pillalu valla maataki value istunnari...parents intha sadism enduku choopoistunnaru naaku ardham kaadhu | ||
| Pplsuck Side Hero Username: Pplsuck Post Number: 6229 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 136.2.1.105 Rating: N/A |
antha commit aipoyi........elagainaa kindaa meeda padi love cheseyyaalsindey antey em chepthaam.........yedo project work that shud be implemented laaga....... love untey kalisedi...lekapothey ledu.......ee forcing love upon oursleves thru commitment, discipline, hardwork, perseverance and patience.........abetted by counselling and consultations antey...........love kantey some insurance policy or insecurity ki medicine anochchemo...... | ||
| Filmbuff Side Hero Username: Filmbuff Post Number: 3424 Registered: 11-2011 Posted From: 85.115.54.180 Rating: N/A |
Kaani chivariki chesukunnadu kadha...chesukopothe adhi vere discussion... | ||
| Saint Megastar Username: Saint Post Number: 26691 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 12.22.163.132 Rating: N/A |
stupidity anochu emo.. | ||
| Thikka_sankara Side Hero Username: Thikka_sankara Post Number: 9170 Registered: 02-2012 Posted From: 122.164.139.56 Rating: N/A |
marriage is more of a commitment... konni saarlu love meeda masaka kammochu, commitment leka pothe, the bonding might end there, commitment unte, both sides may give it a few more tries and in the process may rekindle the lost love.... keka link: fikileaks, | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 12660 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68 Rating: N/A |
may be the urge to get married wasnt as strong  pelli chesukovali kabatti evarino okarini chesukovatam kante better emo ... the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Pplsuck Side Hero Username: Pplsuck Post Number: 6228 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 136.2.1.105 Rating: N/A |
I respect their decision to respect their parents.......everybody has their own priorities.........and different people value things differently......may be they are deep rooted in tradition..........they dont need to bow in front of liberal fascists.........who has no respect for personal choices it seems....... but the idea of marriage without kids naaku ardham kaadu...........if not for kids, marriage enduku.........happy gaa open relation lo live-in undochchu kadaa..........no ties no vows no legalities nothing holding back....except love....and only as long as it exists.........and if things change, easy to move on........ anyways, evari gola vaalladi........ | ||
| Filmbuff Side Hero Username: Filmbuff Post Number: 3423 Registered: 11-2011 Posted From: 85.115.54.180 Rating: N/A |
http://weddingsutra.com/blog/index.php/tag/ravi-venkatesan/ http://umakelath.blogspot.co.uk/2010/10/aisa-bhi-hota-hai.ht ml I was told of this by a Microsoft friend...intha high position lo undi kooda parents pelli voddu annarani pelli chesukopovatam ento...respect analo, bhayam analo..but another instance of our deep rooted casteism....now at this age, they can't have any kids too...hope the parents are happy now... |
