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     Nanigadu Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 11415 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 32.97.110.59 Rating: N/A |
Reddit: it becomes more complicated in terms of indian culture/traditions perse vivarimpudi My show on TORI Raagala Pallaki - every Friday - EST 5 to 6 PM USA - 703-879-6611 UK - 4412 2377 0661 India - 040 66624513 Skype - tori.live1 Live Link: http://www.teluguoneradio.com/player/tori-live.html | ||
| Redbull Side Hero Username: Redbull Post Number: 2423 Registered: 03-2009 Posted From: 195.43.48.145 Rating: N/A |
this is very subtle topic..much of indian style will go along with out culture.. what ever..may be...if we bring up our kids until they turn to teens in west...it becomes more complicated in terms of indian culture/traditions perse | ||
| Feelgud Comedian Username: Feelgud Post Number: 1746 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 122.167.230.129 Rating: N/A |
I agree to the post | ||
| Nanigadu Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 11414 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 32.97.110.59 Rating: N/A |
Gagu: garu avasaram ledu le parledu thitteyyi... i thought it was sensible mama, at least oka age vocchentha varaku indian style of upbringing is good for kids anipisthadi yes after inter ala chesthey chala ibbandulu face cheyyali parents and kids, but before that it creates bonding within the family etantav My show on TORI Raagala Pallaki - every Friday - EST 5 to 6 PM USA - 703-879-6611 UK - 4412 2377 0661 India - 040 66624513 Skype - tori.live1 Live Link: http://www.teluguoneradio.com/player/tori-live.html | ||
| Gandhiguevara Legend Username: Gandhiguevara Post Number: 42487 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 142.136.137.10 Rating: N/A |
Nani garu(gadu) meeru ekkuva involve kaakandi ittanti articles lo...deep analysis mana hein ani oka hindi kavi cheppaadu | ||
| Nanigadu Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 11413 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 32.97.110.59 Rating: N/A |
Ippudey FB lo evaro liking chesthey chadivanu, i think what she says is valid for our busy lives today... what do you guys think Past two days I couldn’t hold back tears in my eyes while reading the court proceedings in ARUSHI’s case. The innocent face of ARUSHI is just the same as that of any other teenager in my colony. Talwars - Wife & Husband look like any other pair in our neighborhood. I feel bad for all of them including the unknown Hemraj. While courts have discussed on one issue, I would like to delve on the topic “Should Parents Close Their Bedroom Doors”. Juxtaposing my personal feelings while I was a young teenager and subsequently as a mother of a teenager, I write the following As a young mother, I had dreams of bringing up my child as per modern thinking. I believed that everything written in English and published outside India was modern while the Indian stuff is too traditional. In 1991 my son was two years old while we moved into a 2 bedroom flat in Bombay. Inspired by the book “Baby and Child Care”, I decided to give one bedroom to my son and laid his bed in that room. With big eyes, I told him – “Sunny you have a room for your own!” and the little fellow just blinked, because he couldn’t understand what I said. The format / getup in his bedroom was different from the one he was used to while sleeping with us. Therefore, reluctantly he went to bed that night in his room, while we both retired for the day in our bedroom. There was a sense of satisfaction that I could implement yet one more point discussed in the “Baby and Child Care” book. Around 2 am I find my child terrified, crying and walking with half open eyes. Seeing his plight I was stunned and hugged him. I soon abandoned the plan of a separate bedroom for him. It was not before when he attained 7 years, when I put him on a separate bed i.e his 2nd Standard. At that time I could convince him that he is grown-up and the bed is not able to accommodate three people for a good sleep. I assured him that the bedroom door would always remain open and he can join us when-ever he wanted. During the initial days the frequency of his visits was a bit more, but soon the child got confidence, that his parents are available in next room and are accessible. Within a year he became a guest in our bedroom but yet I insisted on keeping the bed room doors open. I still remember while he was in Class X, sometimes he used to barge inside and sleep with us. Children at the age of 13-15 have tremendous pressures i.e standard 8 to 10. They are neither children nor teenagers in full form. At this age, sometimes they need to be cuddled and hugged too for emotional security. They cross this barrier once they attain 15-16 years, i.e standard 10 and 11. Thereafter they themselves feel shy entering into parent’s bedroom and prefer to confine to their bedroom. This happens naturally because children start becoming aware of Male and Female relationship. Once this happens, the roles reverse with respect to closing of doors. Now parents should be careful and instruct children not to close their room-doors. I used to argue with my son – “Is there any secret between me and your father? Are we closing our door? Then why there should be a secret between you and parents? Why do you close your room door? Doors should always remain open – that’s it” In short the bedroom doors should never close in a home. If parents need any sweet moments for themselves they need to be stolen without the notice of their children. As elders we have enough ideas and means! I sincerely feel that if only as a policy the bedroom doors been kept open in Talwars' family, today Arushi must have been happily graduating and Talwars been proud parents in search for a suitable boy for her. Reverting back to the subject we can’t be selective in adopting the western culture. In western society a Billionaire can marry a Bar waitress too, no eyebrows would be raised while in India the Class and Caste distinction don't not permit the same in many families. That being so the bedroom doors of parents should always remain open for children in India!!! My show on TORI Raagala Pallaki - every Friday - EST 5 to 6 PM USA - 703-879-6611 UK - 4412 2377 0661 India - 040 66624513 Skype - tori.live1 Live Link: http://www.teluguoneradio.com/player/tori-live.html |
