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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 03:32 pm:       


Ruj:

naak telisi mathram inthe...mee abhiprayam meedhi anesi apeyandi discussion..




simple gaa telcehsaaav , good one
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 02:44 pm:       


Rekkadithe_gani_dokkadadhu:




real life. db kaadu. weeks weeks evaru argue chesukuntaru real life lo? mogudu pellalu kottukuntaremo alaga. I can't sleep over an argument. ratri kottukovadam, podduna madi poyina moham tho coffee lu kayatam - naku chetakavu. personal life lo argument ayite ye roju argument aa roje resolve chesukovali anipistundi. professional life lo, remote ga pani chese vallatho aa scene vundadu.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 02:28 pm:       


Guttonkay:

How do you learn to let go? oka argument nenu correct ayite I don't back down. Bad idea okko sari. nenu correct ayite i keep on replying - mata ki mata type. How do you decide it's not worth arguing with this soul even though u know u are right? What if it happens all the time? What do you do?


You are talking about DB and threads? How about in real life?
How about you are arguing with some one and it lasts a day long in your mind, or even a week.
prati anubhuti oka nirdishtamaina naadam untundi, sruthi untundi, swaram untundi-Cocana(n)da swami
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 02:21 pm:       


Stig:

Star detachment is not an easy thing

You have 2 options

1. Move your post to a different topic
or
2. Realize that you are not your post

Option 2 is easier




Vedam choodaledu kaanee ekkada andharoo explain chesaru saduvu and puhora dilog. Adhi gurthu vachindhi.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 02:16 pm:       


Guttonkay:

vadiko coating iccharu ani kooda vinna. ee chapter ki the end pettesta.




Cadiki already coating echeruga so happy. Worki place lo arguments lekunda choosukovadam better. Eka nundi elantivi ainappudu ela cheste better results vastayi and time& money save avuthundhi ani naa opion ani oka mail team ki pampinchu. Nuvvu cheppinde correct aiyinappudu nuvvu marala i was right anakkara lekunda andhariki telustundhi.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 02:16 pm:       


Guttonkay:



actually it gets tricky... manaki adi experience tho wasthundhi anukunta... there is always a right way of telling... so oka step wennaki theeskuni ... situ/aruguing person ni koddiga clear ga artham seskoni... inkoddiga creativity use setthe set awthundhi...

but yea... if we are alwatified to just one way of telling/trying to tell then mana side kuda koddiga pbm unnate... and i face it too
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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 02:09 pm:       


Guttonkay:

How do you decide it's not worth arguing with this soul even though u know u are right? What if it happens all the time? What do you do?




Thiviri isumuna thailmu theeyocchu
Vedhiki kundeti kommu saadincha vachu
Moorkhuni manassu ranjimpa raadhuu


ani saametha vundhi. adhi manssu lo anukoni backout avvatameee
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 02:03 pm:       


Stig:

2. Realize that you are not your post

Option 2 is easier


 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 02:03 pm:       


Stig:

2. Realize that you are not your post



In this db, there's always someone watching you!!
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 02:02 pm:       


Stig:


:D post esetapude anukunnaa...idevaraina catch cheste manaki counter paduddhi ani :D

nuvvu catch chesesaav
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 02:01 pm:       


Cocanada:


1. Move your mind to a different thought
or
2. Realize that you are not your mind

Option 1 is easier


practical questions ki philosophical answer isthe etla?


Guttonkay:


These problems arise when people tend to classify or judge people and themselves based on right or wrong. One knows deeply that its more complicated than that, thats why you are losing peace. Stop judging people and yourself and you will see things change. Of course easier said.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 02:00 pm:       


Cocanada:

Oraaaaaiiiiiiii single star gaa .......nee %^&%^%$&%&




Star detachment is not an easy thing

You have 2 options

1. Move your post to a different topic
or
2. Realize that you are not your post

Option 2 is easier




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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:54 pm:       


Humpty_dumpty:

CNK antay enti


chethha na ko ani..

Onkai: good decision.. atne continue aipo.. nest time try to communicate via email..
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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:54 pm:       


Guttonkay:

CNK chala matalu annadu Mallik bro. chala kopam vachindi. But you are right, ala mail kottadam valla nakem radu. vadiko coating iccharu ani kooda vinna. ee chapter ki the end pettesta.




vonkai.. work place lo arguments manchidi kadu.. you've to let go
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:54 pm:       


Getafix:

idi elaga? kashtamina sare konchem cheppu brother. TIA.


 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:53 pm:       


Cocanada:

1. Move your mind to a different thought
or
2. Realize that you are not your mind


Coke. You will be a carrot in my story
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:52 pm:       

//CNK chala matalu annadu//

CNK antay enti
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:50 pm:       


Bunty717:


lol. hey tomato is still better than a big fat pumpkin
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:49 pm:       


Cocanada:

2. Realize that you are not your mind




idi elaga? kashtamina sare konchem cheppu brother. TIA.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:48 pm:       


Venkateswarlu:

kurrodiki eepaatike telise untadi you are right ani.. l




CNK chala matalu annadu Mallik bro. chala kopam vachindi. But you are right, ala mail kottadam valla nakem radu. vadiko coating iccharu ani kooda vinna. ee chapter ki the end pettesta.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:46 pm:       

Oraaaaaiiiiiiii single star gaa .......nee %^&%^%$&%&
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:45 pm:       


Executor:

Tomato said argue 10 times and give up.


 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:44 pm:       


Guttonkay:


Emotional detachment is not an easy thing

You have 2 options

1. Move your mind to a different thought
or
2. Realize that you are not your mind

Option 1 is easier
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:42 pm:       


Guttonkay:

aapice lo last week okaditho mata mata vachindi.


Work place lo maata maata varaku pogudadu onkai.. stay on the facts.. its not who is right or who is wrong.. team effort tho alaa munduku povaali.. if i were you, i will not mention that again.. kurrodiki eepaatike telise untadi you are right ani.. light teesko..
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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:35 pm:       


Guttonkay:

"like I mentioned last week" type mail kottala vaddha ani alochistunna. andukani vesa thread.


aadu nee boss aithe "like I mentioned last week" kakapothe "unlike you mentioned last week"
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:32 pm:       


Guttonkay:

Are you alluding to the AR thread?

My post has nothing to do with that one. It looks like everyone else wants to remember that more than me :-)

aapice lo last week okaditho mata mata vachindi. I just found out that what I said that day was right. vadiki "like I mentioned last week" type mail kottala vaddha ani alochistunna. andukani vesa thread.




 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:31 pm:       


Nanigadu:

antey wife & husband/pillalu/amma/nannala gurinchey anukunta kada chellai...




Yea velle kaaka brothers/sisters,vall spouses and in-laws ela annamaata.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:25 pm:       


Executor:




Are you alluding to the AR thread?

My post has nothing to do with that one. It looks like everyone else wants to remember that more than me :-)

aapice lo last week okaditho mata mata vachindi. I just found out that what I said that day was right. vadiki "like I mentioned last week" type mail kottala vaddha ani alochistunna. andukani vesa thread.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:20 pm:       


Executor:


good one
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:19 pm:       


Mental_sachinodu:

depends on the situation, if the things that gets effected is not worth to have an argument, I will just say it out, lets not have an argument about it, its hardly worth it ani... if it is something important, and there is a lot at stake, I usually let the other person speak, and pigeon hole himself in to a logical error. I usually dont tend to get argumentative unless im in a bad mood.




MS bro, I don't know if I really want to call it an argument. If I am right I just keep answering whether it's an email or disucssion or phone call. veedhi bondha anukovatam nerchukovali.

Your point about pigeon holing them is correct. The good thing is I forget easily. I guess I forget the argument but not the fact that the other person is an idiot :-)

I just need to learn to practice to take deep breaths and ignore.

naaku ee mail lo contect nachadu anukunte chadavakunda vundadam nerchukunna.

naku personal life lo argument lu vundavu.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:19 pm:       


Executor:


he he good one
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:16 pm:       

Once upon a time, there lived a stubborn eggplant in a garden who would never let go off anything.
One day a wild mushroom chased her out of the garden. She went to a
nearby lake and saw some fish happily swimming like they don't care about the world. She then came back to the garden
and asked all the other vegetables about how to let go.
Tomato said argue 10 times and give up. okra said just ignore it. Squash said just take a walk to the lake.
Spinach said u have to find the right balance. Green pepper said u have to quit when it gets hot.
Cabbage said just agree with the other vegetable. Cauliflower said you have to pegion hole into a
logical error- basically putting a cauliflower into ear.

And then came the big pumpkin and yelled.. " Will you guys just let go. this is just a freaking
garden and we are just freaking vegetables. Just have fun before we end up as some soup or curry.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:04 pm:       


Nanigadu:

eduti vadu naa gurunchi emi anukuntey naakenti aney feeling



RahulGandhi/JP/Chiru
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 01:02 pm:       


Mikkymouse:

Ekkada kaavalsina ante manani artham chesukoni valla tho manaki relation enti ani anukolekunda deffenet ga relation maintain cheyyalisina vallu aithe.




antey wife & husband/pillalu/amma/nannala gurinchey anukunta kada chellai...


Nanigadu:

mari godava ekkuva aipothey, car keys teesukoni ala voka drive vesi, ekkado coffee thaguthuno/window shopping chesthuno vunta... intalo call vostundi, malli intiki vellipotha




aa roju mothaniki problem/argument solve gaka kopam vuntey, voka 2-3 days matladatam manestha... aa tharvatha antha sardhukontundi... malli back to normal annamata
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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:58 pm:       


Guttonkay:

How do you learn to let go?


Oka 10K posts eshnanka automatic gaa set aipotundi.. DB ki ochhina kothhallo idi common ae..
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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:54 pm:       


Guttonkay:

w do you learn to let go? oka argument nenu correct ayite I don't back down. Bad idea okko sari. nenu correct ayite i keep on replying - mata ki mata type. How do you decide it's not worth arguing with this soul even though u know u are right? What if it happens all the time? What do you do?



naak telisi mathram inthe...mee abhiprayam meedhi anesi apeyandi discussion..:D
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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:53 pm:       

Guttonkay

"How do you learn to let go?"

I decide on this based on the person I am arguing with!

1) Maa nanna tho yeppudanna argument jarigithe okati rendu argue chesaka.....I will let it go, to make him happy!

2) Maa AMMA yeppudanna yedaina point pai view chepthe adi correct kaakunna nuvve correct anta....to make her feel happy.....and world lo mother ni happy gaa uncha taaniki try cheyani vaadu undad anukuntunna!

3) Wife tho argument osthe initial gaa BASTI ME SAWAL...tagge prasakthe ledu ani start chesi......mondi gattam ani oko sari nenu side avutha, oko sari thanu side ayyi relation ki respect istham!

4) Koothuru tho arguement osthe that would be bad for her ane lantivi naa view ni press chestha, kaadu antha imp kaadu ante nuvvu great amma....asala nee nundi nenu nersukovala ani daani igo satisfy chestha!

5) Close firends tho appudappdu argue chesina vallu HURT avuthar anukunte taggi potha!

6) DBs lo mostly BASTI ME SAWAL!
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:52 pm:       


Nanigadu:

basically naa mental peace naku mukhyam, eduti vadu naa gurunchi emi anukuntey naakenti aney feeling




Nee theory bhavundhi annai kaanee aa edhutivadu/vallu manaki baga kaavalsina vallu aithe enti paristiti. Ekkada kaavalsina ante manani artham chesukoni valla tho manaki relation enti ani anukolekunda deffenet ga relation maintain cheyyalisina vallu aithe.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:46 pm:       

evaranna maa adav annai tho argue sesaaaraaa emndi house theesi....only i can do it :D
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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:44 pm:       


Guttonkay:

okadu/okatthi painnunchi idi direction annadu anukondi. adi kadu ani naku telsu. so, nenu correct chesa. avatali vallu oppukola. mata mata anukovadame avatali vadu yield avadu. What do you do?




depends on the situation..idi client place lo work ayithe...just follow that..and show that that is wrong by giving the examples that that didn't work. neeku oodedi emi ledu. nenaithe anthe anukunta. na billing naku vasthadi..

personal ga friends tho ayithe...akkaditho danni cut chesi naku nachinatte chestha.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:44 pm:       


Guttonkay:

okadu/okatthi painnunchi idi direction annadu anukondi. adi kadu ani naku telsu. so, nenu correct chesa. avatali vallu oppukola. mata mata anukovadame avatali vadu yield avadu. What do you do?




Painunchi vachinnapudu you have no choice....you have to listen. Ofcourse you can put forward and articulate your stand, it is upto your boss to take it or not. Most of the times, boss has additional information which is not revealed to you. Simply not meant to be. Well if you dont like it, then open your company and I am sure when your subordinate tries to press his point of view..you will know it
 

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Guttonkay:

okadu/okatthi painnunchi idi direction annadu anukondi. adi kadu ani naku telsu. so, nenu correct chesa. avatali vallu oppukola. mata mata anukovadame avatali vadu yield avadu. What do you do?




depends on the situation, if the things that gets effected is not worth to have an argument, I will just say it out, lets not have an argument about it, its hardly worth it ani... if it is something important, and there is a lot at stake, I usually let the other person speak, and pigeon hole himself in to a logical error. I usually dont tend to get argumentative unless im in a bad mood.
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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:36 pm:       

example ista

okadu/okatthi painnunchi idi direction annadu anukondi. adi kadu ani naku telsu. so, nenu correct chesa. avatali vallu oppukola. mata mata anukovadame avatali vadu yield avadu. What do you do?

OR

oka pani cheyyadam gurinchi okadu ilane cheyyali annadu anukondi. ala kakunda nenu cheppinatlu cheste money and time save avutundi. kani avatali vallu voppukoru. what do you do?

how do you deal with these situations.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:25 pm:       


Getafix:

Arguments are fun as long as they dont turn into confronations.You will know when the argument is turning belligerent..once you get the hint, you will let the argument go.. unless you want to pick up a fight.




chala baga chepparu bro... naa rendu postla saramsam kuda adey
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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:24 pm:       

Arguments are fun as long as they dont turn into confronations.You will know when the argument is turning belligerent..once you get the hint, you will let the argument go.. unless you want to pick up a fight.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:22 pm:       


Guttonkay:

How do you learn to let go?


U just gotto work on it...its jus ur nature i guess....some are meek n submissive ...some are authoritatvie and adgressive....and some find the balance....once ur are aware of what u are half the battle is won....so jus b urself inka pedda post esthey i will loose the point i started lecturing :D
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:22 pm:       


Guttonkay:




mari godava ekkuva aipothey, car keys teesukoni ala voka drive vesi, ekkado coffee thaguthano/window shopping chesthano vunta... intalo call vostundi, malli intiki vellipotha :D
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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:21 pm:       


Guttonkay:

nenu db lo, anni daggarla inte. my question was about real life scenarios.




real life scenario ante.. I wont let go nenu argue chesta..
irrespective of age and relationship..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:20 pm:       

ekkdaina argument ki chance vundi antey nenu naa side nunchi calm aipothanu... unnecessary arguments valla manaku vocchedi emi vundadu ani naa opinion... DB ni nenu serious gaa tesukonu assalu... intlo kuda ekkuva arguements istham vundavu, basically naa mental peace naku mukhyam, eduti vadu naa gurunchi emi anukuntey naakenti aney feeling :-)
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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:17 pm:       

bunty bro,

nenu db lo, anni daggarla inte. my question was about real life scenarios.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:11 pm:       

aa thrd enter avakunda undatam..

nenu oka topic meeda max 10 posts vestanu.. inka
continue avute.. lite tesukuntaa..
no more replies from my side
 

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Posted on Tuesday, June 15, 2010 - 12:08 pm:       

How do you learn to let go? oka argument nenu correct ayite I don't back down. Bad idea okko sari. nenu correct ayite i keep on replying - mata ki mata type. How do you decide it's not worth arguing with this soul even though u know u are right? What if it happens all the time? What do you do?

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