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Guttonkay
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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 03:22 pm:       

samayaspurthi tho takeemani answer cheppevallayite mokham pagala gottinatlu edo okati anagalaru. adi andariki radu.

meerellipoyaka maa kid ki meeru nerpina vedhava matalu anni undo cheyyalandi anandi ee sari :-)

ledante, pallu korukkovatam, pidikillu biginchadam, inko sari vallani invite cheyyakunda avoid cheyyatam.
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 02:52 pm:       

noting down your observations/views. Thanks
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 02:31 pm:       


Executor:

ilaanti vallu naaku inka tagaledhu. but how it is different from when someone offends you? Why would you maintain a relationship with someone who constantly talks low about you or your parents?




Relatives tho problem emitante vallani manam pcik chesukolemu alane avoid cheyyalemu. So kopaginchukokunda vallaki navvuthoo vaddiste valle matladaru enka.
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 02:28 pm:       


Hail_the_labour:

How to deal with relatives who infront of manamu(kids-youth age) do make comedy of our parents.



chaachi okkativvu pilla nayallani inko sari ala maatladar . nenaithe adhe chestha
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 02:27 pm:       


Paga_babai_paga:

Basky bahdaa okkaa mikky kee ardamyinattu vundhi. tanu okkatee reply (apt oo kadoo teliyadu) gaa ichhindi




Apt oo kadhoo naku matram telusu enti? Naku artham ayina problem ki thochina salaha echa(arthamyyindhi anukunnadhi kooda naku exp kaledhu mari)oka vela opt kakapothe naku artham ayindhi anukunna problem evarikanna unte vallu theesukondi aa salahani.
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 02:25 pm:       

Illanti relatives leru...unte matram oka kaan bhairi iyyali
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 02:23 pm:       


Hail_the_labour:

vallani egisi egisi thanthaava??


ilaanti vallu naaku inka tagaledhu. but how it is different from when someone offends you? Why would you maintain a relationship with someone who constantly talks low about you or your parents?
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 02:19 pm:       

Basky bahdaa okkaa mikky kee ardamyinattu vundhi. tanu okkatee reply (apt oo kadoo teliyadu) gaa ichhindi
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 02:06 pm:       

peddavaallaipotunnaru kadanDee chaadastam perugutundi. ala ani vadilesukuntaama? kastapadi penchaaru. so nenu/memu kaakapote evaru chusukuntaaru ante saripotundi.

intelligents will understand that tomorrow their fate will be the same. moorkhulaite emi cheppakkaraledu. endukante emi cheppina ekkadu kabatti.
congratulations to Razesh for breakthrough!!
congratulations to KNF for thorough break!!!
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 02:02 pm:       


Hail_the_labour:

very elder. 1 generation gap anuko. kid is 15 years age. uncles/relatives are 35-45 age




Ee problem naku eppudu raledhu kaanee ela avoid cheyyadam kudharani relatives aithe same matram manam paatinchadam better emo. Comment cheyyali ante andari loonoo edhaokati untundhi. So vallu mana parents comment chesinappudu navvu thoo nijame same as meeku/mee spouse/mee kid ki ee lakshanam unnatlu ante saripothundhi.
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:57 pm:       

@basky

function, events, meeting okay...wallu cheppina prathi daanili colgate smile ivvakundaa ...ya ya anatam ...yela seppalo ardham kavatledhu...it varies by case by case basis
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:51 pm:       


Humpty_dumpty:

ignore and avoid in future...




close knit families lo avaoid ela chestham mama. nelako function, edo okati ostha untadi. people keep going/coming/meeting etc
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:50 pm:       


Humpty_dumpty:

elder to us ayithay




very elder. 1 generation gap anuko. kid is 15 years age. uncles/relatives are 35-45 age
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:49 pm:       

//nee mundhe mee parents ni takkuva chesi matlade manushulu choosthe, emi chesthav, ela react authav, ela avoid chesthav//

same age group or same guage ayithay , direct gaa sepochu
elder to us ayithay, ignore and avoid in future...u can show ur displeasure indirectly
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:46 pm:       

//vallani egisi egisi thanthaava??//

practically not possible.

best valla pillalni thakkuva chesi matladatam. mana parents anna thattukogalam emo kaani pillalnante barinchalem. pack avvuddi vaallaki.
http://www.rediff.com/sports/2000/jun/26cas.htm
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:38 pm:       


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anthena ?




itla kaadhu gaani. nee mundhe mee parents ni takkuva chesi matlade manushulu choosthe, emi chesthav, ela react authav, ela avoid chesthav .

vallani egisi egisi thanthaava??
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:35 pm:       

naku artham ayindhi endante somedbody's mom has 1000 sarees. but not sure about her jewelery and both mom and dad are scared and tense about it. How to deal with this situation. anthena ?
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:29 pm:       

mav neekem ardham kaledho naakardham kaledhu. konchem clear ga cheppu.
http://www.rediff.com/sports/2000/jun/26cas.htm
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:25 pm:       

naaku edi ardham kaaledu..except for kid(youth) tappa
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:23 pm:       

//Plaese create a new section with title "How to deal with"//

How to deal with , how to deal(em cheyyamantaru)

kondaru relatives eppudu edhe question, manam oka verri choopu thappa em cheyyalem.

like arey chinnadhi 10th pass ra, em cheyyamantav. mpc or bipc (manamem cheptham)

arey peddodiki mana atta vaalla ammai smbhandham vachhindhi ra , vaddani cheppali . ela.(eddaru chuttale, em cheppali)

mee babai chetha pekata maaninchali ra , em cheyyali(25 yrs kapuram chesina pinni manalni question esthe manam inka evarni adagali)
http://www.rediff.com/sports/2000/jun/26cas.htm
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:22 pm:       

Bump for some senior dbers
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:21 pm:       

nenu oka DIfferent Angle lo Pothunna... nenu cheppedhi ardham kontha mandike avvochu... kontha mandiki kakapovacchu....

becoz I am trying to present a differnent view altogether
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:19 pm:       


Diviseema:

kastalu manushulaki kaaka megafans ki vasthaya



:-)
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:18 pm:       

okka mukka ardham ayite seppuchukuni kottu
Simha is conceptually hollywood range film - OT
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:15 pm:       

Request to Mods: Plaese create a new section with title "How to deal with"
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:15 pm:       

kish bhayya, aa verri choopulu endhi. elanti Ammalakka threads nuvvochhake start. IBDB lo same elage start chesav ending. . Jambalakadi Pamba 1st phase.
http://www.rediff.com/sports/2000/jun/26cas.htm
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:14 pm:       

oka scenario choosa. 2 mena-mamas has 2 sisters (2 baawas).

modati baawa chaala helpful ga vuntadu family ki etc etc..

rendo baawa: sai kumar strict aaapicer type. eeyana ante USSSA..poskuntaru...

aaa veedhilo vasthunte, itu ninchi ite paraaar autharu...

NOW: fun is made on the 1st baawa with the help of his kids. but eeyane ekkkuva helpful to them but konchem middle class type annattu.
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:13 pm:       

//DB members ki inni kashtaalu vuntaayi ani naaku ippudippude artham avutundi.//

kastalu manushulaki kaaka megafans ki vasthaya
http://www.rediff.com/sports/2000/jun/26cas.htm
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:10 pm:       

DB members ki inni kashtaalu vuntaayi ani naaku ippudippude artham avutundi.
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:07 pm:       

Yes, naaku real life lo nachhanidhi navvu. inka chiraku inkokadini comment chesi navvadam. i dont mean smilling and all.

simple solution, vallaki nachhani topic ni pade pade ettandi moosukuntaru. if they are not comfortable with talking mandu , do that. vaalla munde mandeyyandi. its good ani vaadinchandi. if they are not confortable with talking sex, watch semi pron before them. dominate ruthlessly without telling a word aganist them directly. 1st shock avutharu , next moosukuntaru.
http://www.rediff.com/sports/2000/jun/26cas.htm
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 01:00 pm:       


balayya baa baa anna parledhu , cbn ki okka koduke. em chesina vadike. aadu chesundhi balayya koothurne. so no problem. mee sangathi choodandi. allu ni baa baa anthe bunny bum chick chesukuntadu. okka koothurnanna echhunte bagundedhi.- Diviseema
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 20, 2010 - 12:58 pm:       

How to deal with relatives who infront of manamu(kids-youth age) do make comedy of our parents.

They come and stay in our homes and use our resources or whatever help... but still make fun of parents.

point enti ante, They try to Enourage the KID(youth age) to also laugh at the mockery done on the kid's own parents.


Some kids(youth age) realise that they are taken for a ride, while some kids(youth age) dont realise and instead gangup with these relatives in making fun (like cheap commenting, vekkirinchatam etc about own parents.).


Laukyam telisna KIDS immediate ga realise autharu, like we should always respect our parents in-front of relatives etc...

but kontha mandhi kids(youth age) ki theliyadhu.... eg. maa amma ki 200 cheeralu unnai, anni nagalu unnai ani etc cheppesthu untaru..secrets etc... or maa ammaki idhi bhayam, maa naanni ki tension etc etc ani..


did you see,face such scenarios, whats your ideas??

Thread ni lighter vien lo vesanu, nothing serious..

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