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Lenin
Megastar Username: Lenin
Post Number: 21070 Registered: 08-2014
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 05:29 pm: |
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I will only plan, when I am going to cheat my wife of course, planning will make you pick that confined way which you need to travel and you need to memorize a lot of stuff Guntur, Hyderabad, Andhra, Telangana, Tamilnadu, Karnataka first....India last!!! |
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Nepatriot
Comedian Username: Nepatriot
Post Number: 1734 Registered: 11-2013
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 05:18 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:
Do you feel extremely happy or ecstatic about anything? I feel Happiness and sadness are inseparable .. if you can’t be extremely happy you can’t be extremely sad as well.. just my thoughts .. I might be wrong.. |
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Happydays
Hero Username: Happydays
Post Number: 12089 Registered: 02-2015
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 05:15 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:My wife is an extreme planner, very efficient, and she works hard to stay on schedule. she plans even the minutest of things to long term goals. she has plan in mind on what she will be doing November 2020, to the extent that if we are going on a trip - she will also think about possible gas stations, and where to pitstop. She makes it very easy for others, because she plans every aspect. This comes at a cost to her, she gets stressed very easily, she finds it hard to cope with changes to any plans, and get easily frustrated.
 Chiru,Veturi,SPB,Ilayaraja,Jandhyala,Vamsi,K Viswanath,Sachin,Florida,Rohit Sharma |
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Scorpio
Megastar Username: Scorpio
Post Number: 23354 Registered: 09-2008
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 05:11 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:My wife is an extreme planner, very efficient, and she works hard to stay on schedule. she plans even the minutest of things to long term goals. she has plan in mind on what she will be doing November 2020, to the extent that if we are going on a trip - she will also think about possible gas stations, and where to pitstop. She makes it very easy for others, because she plans every aspect. This comes at a cost to her, she gets stressed very easily, she finds it hard to cope with changes to any plans, and get easily frustrated.
You are scaring us...maree ee range planning ante...vaammoooooo
 Nagarjuna Sagar...SriSailam...Polavaram...Handri-Neeva...SomaSila...ThotaPalli...VeliGonda...PuliChintala..etc |
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Baatasari
Side Hero Username: Baatasari
Post Number: 2504 Registered: 10-2018
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 04:59 pm: |
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i follow the mix&match approach... plan meticulously when i have time,patience.. else just go for it.. knowing astrology, does help me anticipate .. lots of situations, so i plan for backup in advance for times when i am completely caught off-guard.. the astro-bent of mind helps me .. come back .. so moving on.. brahma satyam jagan-mithyä jivo brahmaiva näparah |
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Ustad
Megastar Username: Ustad
Post Number: 27309 Registered: 07-2008
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 04:48 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:My wife is an extreme planner, very efficient, and she works hard to stay on schedule. she plans even the minutest of things to long term goals. she has plan in mind on what she will be doing November 2020, to the extent that if we are going on a trip - she will also think about possible gas stations, and where to pitstop. She makes it very easy for others, because she plans every aspect. This comes at a cost to her, she gets stressed very easily, she finds it hard to cope with changes to any plans, and get easily frustrated.
I am also more less the same & get easily frustrated. I will try your technique of focusing on 1 thing at a time. I learned long ago, never to wrestle with a pig. You get dirty and besides, the pig likes it - George Bernard Shaw |
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Rajusk
Legend Username: Rajusk
Post Number: 68496 Registered: 02-2008
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 04:26 pm: |
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Whyme: by stressing how stress-free he is.. he stressed out all dbers
meekenti rao garu..meeku stress anipinchinappudu.. rendu sethulatho rendu pattukoni zara sepu atu itu nadusthar..ade dumbells maa lanti mango feeful paristhithi enti |
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Whyme
Megastar Username: Whyme
Post Number: 28347 Registered: 09-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 04:14 pm: |
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ban mental-sachin please.. by stressing how stress-free he is.. he stressed out all dbers |
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Confused
Comedian Username: Confused
Post Number: 1137 Registered: 05-2017
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 04:11 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:
may be for some people they see things as it is and r content with outcomes... for some people success is important and they are only happy when they work hard to get the recognition from everyone around them and mostly first kind of persons are the people who second kind of people care the recognition from. |
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Mental_sachinodu
Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 22689 Registered: 10-2008
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 04:08 pm: |
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Rajusk:meeru oka Stoic personality aka stithapragnyudu ani samajh ayyindi rao garu i am waiting for a point in life ..where frustration gets frustrated with me and gives up frustrating me
sthithapranyudu.. lanti pedha words endhuku le vunkl.. with someone of your caliber and persistance, i dont think it will be hard for you.
Mahiz:last time meere kada dog story post chesaru .. it was very touching ..
not sure which story, but yes i did post about bella ... recently |
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Musafir
Junior Artist Username: Musafir
Post Number: 54 Registered: 10-2018
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 04:04 pm: |
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Kathanayakudu, Mahanayakudu, M_S stress taadu.
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Rajusk
Legend Username: Rajusk
Post Number: 68495 Registered: 02-2008
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 03:57 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu: to me the emotion get ecstatic and or sad or frustrated is common.
meeru oka Stoic personality aka stithapragnyudu ani samajh ayyindi rao garu i am waiting for a point in life ..where frustration gets frustrated with me and gives up frustrating me  |
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Mental_sachinodu
Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 22681 Registered: 10-2008
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 03:49 pm: |
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Hawkeye:change title to thread - 2 ... original thread sena-admin uncle marchadu ... adi vairagyam ... not stress
ardham kaaledh rao garu |
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Mahiz
Side Hero Username: Mahiz
Post Number: 2873 Registered: 10-2012
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 03:49 pm: |
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last time meere kada dog story post chesaru .. it was very touching .. Janani Janma-bhoomi-scha Swargadapi Gariyasi |
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Hawkeye
Moderator Username: Hawkeye
Post Number: 3136 Registered: 04-2015
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 03:44 pm: |
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change title to thread - 2 ... original thread sena-admin uncle marchadu ... adi vairagyam ... not stress |
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Mental_sachinodu
Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 22680 Registered: 10-2008
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 03:39 pm: |
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single star .. why re? me point ento chepthe.. it will help i just posted what helps me. it might work others, or might not work for others. |
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Mental_sachinodu
Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 22677 Registered: 10-2008
Rating:  Votes: 4 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, February 21, 2019 - 03:19 pm: |
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I was reading the posts the other two threads, related to this. Not sure how much of it is trolling, or if there are things that are more serious than they seem to be. I cant say what helps others, but I can speak about myself and my observations - take what you think is of any value. Stress and anxiety could be an outcome of clinical behavioiral issues, in this case, i feel taling to a professional is the most helpful. if its not a clinical issue, i think the perception of what we are, what things around are the cause. Let me say this - I seem to be very lucky in life, as I did not face much of the problems that I see others in the db go through - but i can say i have had my reasonable share of hardships, and I still consider myself lucky. I and my life partner to opposites when it comes to the way we live our life. My wife is an extreme planner, very efficient, and she works hard to stay on schedule. she plans even the minutest of things to long term goals. she has plan in mind on what she will be doing November 2020, to the extent that if we are going on a trip - she will also think about possible gas stations, and where to pitstop. She makes it very easy for others, because she plans every aspect. This comes at a cost to her, she gets stressed very easily, she finds it hard to cope with changes to any plans, and get easily frustrated. The other opposite is me. I dont have plans, I dont make plans, I dont know what I will be doing tomorrow - other than the things on my calendar. I am always just thinking about thing I am doing right now. I have schedules, but those schedules are not because of what I chose, but because what others are picking. While working I dont think about anything else, while eating I dont think about anything else, while with kids, I dont think about anything else. This also means, I rarely get stressed. Everyone who has ever worked with me, or for me - never can understand how I am feeling, even when everyone around is stressed or freaking about something. Strangely, i dont feel the same urgency as others. I am usually always ahead of schedule and is what is expected, and even when things are not going as expected, it doesnt seem to bother me the same. This has lead many to think, i dont enjoy or care what i do, but its the opposite, to me the emotion get ecstatic and or sad or frustrated is common. To me, just paying attention to what i am doing, rather than what I should have been doing, thinking about the outcome, rather than paying attention to what we are doing to achieve the outcome - is the key to not feel the stress. I can go into more detail - but i think this already too preachy  |
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