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Frodo
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Posted on Saturday, October 08, 2011 - 08:03 am:       

The thing that scares the crap out of me is being disabled and having to live without one or more limbs and eyes and that kind of life.

another thing that is in the same league of scaredness is having to see my bro/cousins suffer. my bro fractured his hand once [way back when we were kids] and i could have rammed my head against a wall, when i saw him wince in pain.

the thing that got me most agitated/panicked was when i found out my fiance was having an affair! aaargghhh! for a day, i was like SRK in darr. total psycho thoughts. fortunately they remained as thoughts and my sanity returned in time to prevent me from stooping to her level.....
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Posted on Saturday, October 08, 2011 - 02:22 am:       


Jp_rocks:




Didn't you once write a long eulogy on the death of your pet dog ? That did not read like it was written by someone who was detached and had taken death on its terms...

I agree with Cocanada - there is no point in trying to imagine and project how you will react when painful things happen. When catastrophe hits the phases of denial, anger , apathy and acceptance have to be gone thru. Some spend longer on some phases , others move thru them at a faster pace.
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 11:49 pm:       


Jp_rocks:

Twitter bro emundi andulo time ochindi poyadu anthe kada



pothanani thelisi erpatlu chesukovadam elagaina pain kaadhantaava
Lets create a corruption-free India

 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 11:27 pm:       


Jp_rocks:

most frightening prospect for you?




Getting dumped by girl
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 11:26 pm:       


Jp_rocks:


Rocks thammud ni dialog JALSA lo di kada


rocks annai..worst ques..
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 11:23 pm:       

Twitter bro emundi andulo time ochindi poyadu anthe kada

Rocks thammud ni dialog JALSA lo di kada
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 10:44 pm:       


Jp_rocks:

what is the most frightening prospect for you?




nakosthe kashtam....naaku kavalsina vadiki vaste adi narakam....baa cheppana..
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 10:37 pm:       

http://finance.yahoo.com/news/With-Time-Running-Short-Jobs-n ytimes-175542823.html?x=0

@JP idhi chadhuvuthe endhuko ee thed gurthocchindhi koddhiga emotional ayyanantaava :-(

Over the last few months, a steady stream of visitors to Palo Alto, Calif., called an old friend’s home number and asked if he was well enough to entertain visitors, perhaps for the last time.

In February, Steven P. Jobs had learned that, after years of fighting cancer, his time was becoming shorter. He quietly told a few acquaintances, and they, in turn, whispered to others. And so a pilgrimage began.

The calls trickled in at first. Just a few, then dozens, and in recent weeks, a nearly endless stream of people who wanted a few moments to say goodbye, according to people close to Mr. Jobs. Most were intercepted by his wife, Laurene. She would apologetically explain that he was too tired to receive many visitors. In his final weeks, he became so weak that it was hard for him to walk up the stairs of his own home anymore, she confided to one caller.

Some asked if they might try again tomorrow.

Sorry, she replied. He had only so much energy for farewells. The man who valued his privacy almost as much as his ability to leave his mark on the world had decided whom he most needed to see before he left.

Mr. Jobs spent his final weeks — as he had spent most of his life — in tight control of his choices. He invited a close friend, the physician Dean Ornish, a preventive health advocate, to join him for sushi at one of his favorite restaurants, Jin Sho in Palo Alto. He said goodbye to longtime colleagues including the venture capitalist John Doerr, the Apple board member Bill Campbell and the Disney chief executive Robert A. Iger. He offered Apple’s executives advice on unveiling the iPhone 4S, which occurred on Tuesday. He spoke to his biographer, Walter Isaacson. He started a new drug regime, and told some friends that there was reason for hope.

But, mostly, he spent time with his wife and children — who will now oversee a fortune of at least $6.5 billion, and, in addition to their grief, take on responsibility for tending to the legacy of someone who was as much a symbol as a man.

“Steve made choices,” Dr. Ornish said. “I once asked him if he was glad that he had kids, and he said, ‘It’s 10,000 times better than anything I’ve ever done.’ ”

“But for Steve, it was all about living life on his own terms and not wasting a moment with things he didn’t think were important. He was aware that his time on earth was limited. He wanted control of what he did with the choices that were left.”

In his final months, Mr. Jobs’s home — a large and comfortable but relatively modest brick house in a residential neighborhood — was surrounded by security guards. His driveway’s gate was flanked by two black S.U.V.’s.

On Thursday, as online eulogies multiplied and the walls of Apple stores in Taiwan, New York, Shanghai and Frankfurt were papered with hand-drawn cards, the S.U.V.’s were removed and the sidewalk at his home became a garland of bouquets, candles and a pile of apples, each with one bite carefully removed.

“Everyone always wanted a piece of Steve,” said one acquaintance who, in Mr. Jobs’s final weeks, was rebuffed when he sought an opportunity to say goodbye. “He created all these layers to protect himself from the fan boys and other peoples’ expectations and the distractions that have destroyed so many other companies.

“But once you’re gone, you belong to the world.”

Mr. Jobs’s biographer, Mr. Isaacson, whose book will be published in two weeks, asked him why so private a man had consented to the questions of someone writing a book. “I wanted my kids to know me,” Mr. Jobs replied, Mr. Isaacson wrote Thursday in an essay on Time.com. “I wasn’t always there for them, and I wanted them to know why and to understand what I did.”

Because of that privacy, little is known yet of what Mr. Jobs’s heirs will do with his wealth. Unlike many prominent business people, he has never disclosed plans to give large amounts to charity. His shares in Disney, which Mr. Jobs acquired when the entertainment company purchased his animated film company, Pixar, are worth about $4.4 billion. That is double the $2.1 billion value of his shares in Apple, perhaps surprising given that he is best known for the computer company he founded.

Mr. Jobs’s emphasis on secrecy, say acquaintances, led him to shy away from large public donations. At one point, Mr. Jobs was asked by the Microsoft founder Bill Gates to give a majority of his wealth to philanthropy alongside a number of prominent executives like Mr. Gates and Warren E. Buffett. But Mr. Jobs declined, according to a person with direct knowledge of Mr. Jobs’s decision.

Now that Mr. Jobs is gone, many people expect that attention will focus on his wife, Laurene Powell Jobs, who has largely avoided the spotlight, but is expected to oversee Mr. Jobs’s fortune. A graduate of the University of Pennsylvania and the Stanford Graduate School of Business, Mrs. Powell Jobs worked in investment banking before founding a natural foods company. She then founded College Track, a program that pairs disadvantaged students with mentors who help them earn college degrees. That has led to some speculation in the philanthropic community that any large charitable contributions might go to education, though no one outside Mr. Jobs’s inner circle is thought to know of the plans.

Mr. Jobs himself never got a college degree. Despite leaving Reed College after six months, he was asked to give the 2005 commencement speech at Stanford.

In that address, delivered after Mr. Jobs was told he had cancer but before it was clear that it would ultimately claim his life, Mr. Jobs told his audience that “death is very likely the single best invention of life. It is life’s change agent.”

The benefit of death, he said, is you know not to waste life living someone else’s choices.

“Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.”

In his final months, Mr. Jobs became even more dedicated to such sentiments. “Steve’s concerns these last few weeks were for people who depended on him: the people who worked for him at Apple and his four children and his wife,” said Mona Simpson, Mr. Jobs’s sister. “His tone was tenderly apologetic at the end. He felt terrible that he would have to leave us.”

As news of the seriousness of his illness became more widely known, Mr. Jobs was asked to attend farewell dinners and to accept various awards.

He turned down the offers. On the days that he was well enough to go to Apple’s offices, all he wanted afterward was to return home and have dinner with his family. When one acquaintance became too insistent on trying to send a gift to thank Mr. Jobs for his friendship, he was asked to stop calling. Mr. Jobs had other things to do before time ran out.

“He was very human,” Dr. Ornish said. “He was so much more of a real person than most people know. That’s what made him so great.”
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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 01:24 pm:       

Maa cousin okkadu US vachinapptnunchi (for last 10 years) regular kalusthuu vundevaalamu. He used to come to my place yeraly thrice when he was bachelor. After he was married also we used to meet atleast two times in a year.

Ee year September lo kalavaalsindhi. Kanai unfortunately September3rd he died by getting drowned in water. So vaadini sivari saari doodataaniki vellalsivachindhi.

Felt very sad and still unable to digest that he is no more there

antha attached.

Naake ilaa vunte papam, valla brother and parents situation thalchukuntee saala badha vesthundhi. Wife sangathi cheppakkarledhu.

He was drowned infront of her eyes

http://www.wdrb.com/story/15394484/louisville-man-drowns-whi le-trying-save-boy-from-river
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 01:00 pm:       

Jp_Rocks tho ekibhavisthunna..manaki close ayina vaallu chanipothe manaki edupu ravalani rule ledhu....

naatho oka 2 years daily thirigi chanipoyaaru 3 friends....mugguru friends chanipothe calm ga last rites anni jaripinchaanu daggara vundi....edupu raaledhu.....andhariki shocking....

but monna Nellore vellinappudu eppudu kalise place ki vellinappudu kanneeellu vachesaayi....
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:46 pm:       


Jp_rocks:

aayana poyinappudu enduku edupu raledo naku ippatiki artham kadu..




andaroo mee laga dhairyam gaa vundaleru unkl
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:37 pm:       

Mahabharatham lo Sir Krishnudu,Arjunudiki am cheppado ade nenu seppthuna
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:37 pm:       


Jp_rocks:




Very touching write up anna !
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:31 pm:       

I was v v v attached to my grandpa..more than my parents, more than anyone....we shared a v special bond..he was my inspiration

ppl thought i'd go crazy if he passed away....i used to think in the same lines too.....but when he did pass away, there was really no emotion..just a feeling of void..

that was abt 15 yrs ago...he's in my daily prayers and i do miss him sometimes and hope to meet him up there..but that's abt it......that had to happen and it did happen..peddaga bhayankaramaina badha em ledu....my take away is all the good memories i had with him..

aayana poyinappudu enduku edupu raledo naku ippatiki artham kadu..
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:26 pm:       


Cocanada:

delete this thread


emotional avvaku bangaram...try to control your motions and emotions

Komaranna:

death of parents


this is an eventuality..sooner or later u will have to face it

Twitter:

but if it comes to us we have to face there is no alternative for that, anything bad hurts you only for the first time we can't say how we are going to handle unless we pass that phase.


correct...but if u imagine, do u think u will be able to get over it?

i think i do.....
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:24 pm:       

It is tough to answer since you cannot say how you will react when the actual events happen. However prepared you may be, your mental state at the moment the event happens dictates your reactions. As Steve Jobs said, death is the only certain thing and it is coming, whether you like it or not.
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:22 pm:       

Funny that you posted this thread, I was thinking of starting similar philosophical thread couple of days ago, but on the matters of relationships and what is important in life.
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:18 pm:       

delete this thread
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:17 pm:       


Jp_rocks:

do u think u can handle ANYTHING that life throws at you, including the deaths of loved ones?

what is the most frightening prospect for you?



never thought about this , but if it comes to us we have to face there is no alternative for that, anything bad hurts you only for the first time we can't say how we are going to handle unless we pass that phase.
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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:13 pm:       

Job loss, financial issues NOTHING compared to death or severe health issues.
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:10 pm:       


Jp_rocks:

what is the most frightening prospect for you?




paina dhaniki answer kindha quote.


Jp_rocks:

including the deaths of loved ones?


 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:09 pm:       

death of parents
 

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Posted on Friday, October 07, 2011 - 12:08 pm:       

do u think u can handle ANYTHING that life throws at you, including the deaths of loved ones?

what is the most frightening prospect for you?

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