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Mental_sachinodu Side Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 3921 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 63.161.147.10 Rating: N/A |
kaapuraalu sariga chesukone opika ledhu kaani, ilaanti research lu mathram baaane setthunaar anipisthundhi.. ippudu laws divorce ki anukoolam, socially accepted phenomenon. love marriage, economical marriage, political marriage, caste marriage ki sambandham emundhi, andhar baane divorces theesukuntunnaar.. as long as one of the partners is able to live with the other's deficiencies divorce kakunda nilabadathadhi anukuntunna... the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
Hail_the_labour Side Hero Username: Hail_the_labour Post Number: 5123 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 75.185.82.44 Rating: N/A |
Eppudo cheppam ga, Pilla ki sambandham icckune tappudu, PAIKI icchukovali(rich) all is written in our old history scriptures(indian) recent pulihara scientific experts also saying the same above | ||
Dreamcatcher Junior Artist Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 696 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 63.236.13.198 Rating: N/A |
No, I did not take it as criticising. :-) Naaku kooda clear ga teliyadu. Few months ago, I was listening to one of NPR's weekend programs and they were interviewing a desi dude who won Buffet's dinner auction held for Buffet's charity. He was sharing their dinner details and that is when I heard about warren's wife and his friend. I believe she also wrote his biography recently if I am not mistaken.
I agree with you. Nothing against women getting educated and going out to work and all. It just boils down to their individual priorities finally and that will most likely decides the fate of any relationship I think.
Very true, absolutely agree with you.
Tammudu, rich/poor is all relative. You are a rich dude to someone who is a strata or two below your economic level. Pedda vaallu edo saametha cheppinattu gurtu denigurinchi. :-) | ||
Movieanalyst Side Hero Username: Movieanalyst Post Number: 3786 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 122.164.220.55 Rating: N/A |
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Movieanalyst Side Hero Username: Movieanalyst Post Number: 3785 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 122.164.220.55 Rating: N/A |
Women general gaa rich men ne prefer setharu kadaa  ... | ||
Ntr_rocks Hero Username: Ntr_rocks Post Number: 11472 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 170.141.177.181 Rating: N/A |
ante maa lanti poor men ni chesukune girls ekuva kalam batakara akkai...  If you don't like Something, Change it. If you can't Change it, Change the way you think about it. | ||
Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 7491 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 117.199.240.202 Rating: N/A |
Looks like statistics show otherwise. But actually it makes sense. Being a sole breadwinner is stressful - having that onus shared relieves a lot of the finance driven stress on the man.Another reason given was that an educated woman is likely to make better choices on healthy lifestyle.. And for the women - marrying a rich man negates the need for a woman to supplement the family income and automatically places the woman higher on the Maslow's pyramid where all security needs are satisfied thus reducing stress  And these days stress is the biggest killer.. Talk to you all later aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 6527 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
vichithram.. i was thinking that education was the source of lot of stress between couples ani. Due to the access to education more and more women are becoming career oriented and placing less emphasis on family life ani anukuntunta nenu.. Nothing against women getting an education though.. | ||
Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 7490 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 117.199.240.202 Rating: N/A |
Thanks. Still in India Having a great timeaa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 6526 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
@Anand Welcome back..how was your trip to india? | ||
Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 7489 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 117.199.240.202 Rating: N/A |
Read an article in a magazine recently - secret to longevity- long life is the right marriage What was curious was what was statistically found to be the right marriage ... Men who married intelligent, educated women live longer.. Women who marry rich men live longer aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
Elcaminocapastrino Megastar Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 20896 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 71.100.28.147 Rating: N/A |
so true...love draws passion n complicates marriage...love less passionless marriage is a succesful recipe for longterm relationships | ||
Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 6524 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
@DC criticising ani kaadu.. just info sake vesaa aa post.. eppudo most richest and happient men in the world ane article edo sadivina.. andulo all men were polygamous .and thier spouses were cool with their husbands' polygamy and chadivinattu guthu.. anduke vesaa.. | ||
Dreamcatcher Junior Artist Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 695 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 63.236.13.198 Rating: N/A |
Mistress kaadu anukunta, close friend anukunta. After he separated from his wife, I think he dated her. We never know the real story anyway. | ||
Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 6520 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
WB ki mistress undhi ani chadivinattu gurthu. it seems WB's wife is cool about it too .. WB nunnchi oche Chrstimas cards lo wb signature tho paatu aayana wife and his mistress sign kuda untadanta.. | ||
Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 6519 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
I read abt this guy in Malcolm Gladwell's Blink .. as per Gladwell.. this Grottoman guy has amazing accuracy in predicting whether a marriage lasts or not.. | ||
Dreamcatcher Junior Artist Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 694 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 63.236.13.198 Rating: N/A |
Warren Buffet once said, "Biggest and most important decision that you make that will decide rest of your life's course is who you choose to marry. Not which college to go to, not which department to major in, not which company to work for." Very wise words. | ||
Dreamcatcher Junior Artist Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 693 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 63.236.13.198 Rating: N/A |
"What Markman, Gottman and the others were finding undermined the basic principle driving romantic relationships in America: "That it's about finding the right person. That if you find your soulmate, everything will be fine," Sollee says. "That's the big myth." It's important to choose a spouse wisely, these scientists would say, but it's equally important to be skilled in the convoluted art of conducting a marriage. " | ||
Dreamcatcher Junior Artist Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 692 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 63.236.13.198 Rating: N/A |
"A few years later, in 1989, she sat at a conference listening to Gottman talk about the results of a decades-long study of couples at his "Love Lab" in Seattle. Gottman found that all couples -- those who are happily married into their rocking-chair years and those who divorce before they hit their fifth anniversary -- disagree more or less the same amount. He found that they all argue about the same subjects -- money, kids, time and sex chief among them -- and that for the average couple, 69 percent of those disagreements will be irreconcilable. A morning bird and a night owl won't ever fully eliminate their differences; nor will a spendthrift and a penny pincher. What distinguished satisfied couples from the miserable ones, he found, was how creatively and constructively they managed those differences. " | ||
Dreamcatcher Junior Artist Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 691 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 63.236.13.198 Rating: N/A |
"Romantic love assumed a position of high value but even higher vulnerability. Still, until the second half of the 20th century, these ubiquitous couplings went largely unstudied. What happened behind closed doors generally remained private, unless one had a particularly nosy set of in-laws or a manner of fighting that necessitated police intervention. " | ||
Dreamcatcher Junior Artist Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 690 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 63.236.13.198 Rating: N/A |
Some excerpts: "Men and women have been pairing off since the dawn of humanity. For most of its history, marriage was an economic institution that created advantageous alliances between clans and was arranged, often, without much input from the bride or groom. But by the 19th century, many in the Western world had begun to marry for love, making the relationship infinitely more complicated and divorce a lot more common." | ||
Dreamcatcher Junior Artist Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 689 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 63.236.13.198 Rating: N/A |
Interesting article. You could clearly see the transformations, marriage wise, happening in our Indian society through this article. http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/06 /18/AR2010061804509.html?hpid=topnews&sid=ST2010062404889 |